A

Anal: Intercourse in which the penis goes into the anus.

Anilingus or DATO: Oral stimulation of the anus.

B

Bareback or Uncovered: Without a condom.

BBBJ: Bareback Blow Job. Oral stimulation of the penis without a condom.

BDSM: Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism. This is a catch-all to refer to the various aspects of negotiated, mutually consensual exchange of power between two consenting adults. Regardless of the depth of the relationship, consent, safety and sanity are the cornerstone of the lifestyle.

BLS: Ball licking and sucking.

BS: Brown Shower. Defecation on your partner or feces play.

C

CBJ: Covered Blow Job. Oral stimulation of the penis with a condom.

CIB: Cum in Body. She allows the man to come in some part of her body (not face).

CIF: Cum in Face. She allows the man to come in her face (not mouth).

CIM: Cum in Mouth. She allows the man to come in her mouth (spit or swallow).

Companionship: Provision of company for a male or female to formal or informal appointments, social events, relaxed and unhurried encounters or exotic trips; in the ambiance of first class restaurants, fine hotels or glamorous cities.
The services are performed by companions, they mostly have a career of their own and are paid for their time.

CS: Covered Sexual Service. Sexual intercourse with Protection. Various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid STDs.

Cunnilingus or DATY: Oral stimulation of the vulva or clitoris.

D

DATO: Dining at the O. Erotic stimulation achieved by contact between mouth and anus.

DATY: Dining at the Y. Erotic stimulation achieved by contact between mouth and vulva or clitoris.

DT: Deep Throat. Fellatio where the whole length of the penis is “swallowed”.

DP: Digital Penetration. Finger Penetration.

Duo: Threesome with two providers.

F

FFF: Female, Female, Female for Threesome designations. A woman provides service to two women.

FJ: Foot Job. Stimulation of the penis using feet and toes.

FK: French Kiss. Kissing with tongue.

G

GFE: Girl Friend Experience. A subjective term, but usually used as praise for a very passionate, sensual, non-mechanical experience. Includes FK, CS, DATY and 69.

GS: Golden Shower. Urinating on your partner, urine play.

H

HJ: Hand Job. Stimulation of the penis to orgasm using hand and fingers.

L

LK: Light Kissing. (no tongue).

M

Massage: To rub a body-part, or body softly and gently for relaxing or pleasure. Can also be used as a form of sex.

MFF: Male, Female, Female for Threesome designations. A woman provides service to a man and a woman.

MMF: Male, Male, Female for Threesome designations. A woman provides service to two men.

MSOG: Multiple shots on goal. She allows to have more than 1 orgasm during the session.

MS: Menstrual Service. Sexual service during her menstruation or period.

O

Outcall: She comes to your place.

OWO: Oral Without. Fellatio without a condom.

P

PSE: Porn Star Experience. Sexual encounter where the provider exhibited certain porn-like characteristics. Usually including such things as: Talking Dirty, CIM, a general knowledge of sexual positions and willingness to sexually please.

R

Russian: Penis between her breasts.

S

Self-Service: Masturbation. No contact with the provider, but the man can masturbate.

Sixty Nine – 69: Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously.

STDs: Sexually Transmitted Diseases or Diseases transmitted by sexual contact.

Striptease: Erotic dance in which the performer gradually undresses, either partly or completely, in a seductive and sexually suggestive manner.

T

Threesome: Sexual activity that involves three people at the same. FFF, MFF, MMF.

U

Uncovered or Bareback: Without a condom.

W

WS: Woman Service. Companion provides service to a woman.